YouthTRANZ
Follow up: The SEVEN Essentials
Thanks for registering for YouthTRANZ.
If you are contacted by a youth leader about a young person moving
to your town/city please take the approach very seriously and give
follow up a high priority. Yours may be the only group in your area
they (the young person and /or youth leader) may have chosen to
make contact with, so don't let them down. Use the guidelines below
in following up young people new to your area.
1. Ensure you have all the details you need.
Find out their name, where they are staying, a phone
number and when they arrive. Ask their youth leader if there is
any additional information you should know that would help, for
example the extent to which they are committed to their faith.
2. Be appropriate
Make your first contact a telephone one (not a text!).
Introduce yourself, say how you got their contact details and ask
if you can meet with them to welcome them to your town/city, get
to know them and talk with them about finding a church home. If
they are reluctant, don't push it, but if they are happy to meet
find out what venue to meet is most appropriate. Needless to say
meeting them alone in a dorm room is not appropriate,
especially if they of the opposite sex! Maybe meet in a lounge area
at a hostel or take them out for coffee. Give them opportunity to
bring any others with them who may be interested in meeting with
you.
3. Be prompt
Those who fall away from church attendance upon moving
to a new town or city do so in the first few weeks. Follow them
up promptly, as soon after their arrival date as you can. Let their
previous youth leader know that you have been in touch and let them
know how you felt it went and any outcomes.
4. Be sensitive
Remember that YouthTRANZ is not primarily
about getting more people into your youth ministry. It is about
ensuring young people make a smooth transition to a new place and
that their faith flourishes. Try to find out what their
needs are. For example, are they wanting to know something about
other churches in your area - not just yours? Are they excited about
the move or fearful? Do they already have friends in your area?
Don't make assumptions or see your contact with them as a recruitment
drive. It is a pastoral visit from someone who has their best interests
at heart.
5. Be practical
Offer all the practical help needed to help them integrate
into your church if that's what they want to do. Ensure they have
transport, and even if they do, offer to pick them up the first
time so that they do not arrive alone. If they have no way of getting
to your programme you don't need to necessarily bring them every
week - maybe they can be introduced to someone who is passing their
place. If your group is large create opportunities for them to meet
people their own age in smaller settings - perhaps invite them round
for a meal with a few others.
6. Be evangelistic
Ask them if there is anyone else they have met who
is new to the city who might like you to visit them or give a lift
to your programme. It may or may not be someone who has been previously
involved in a church.
7. Be persistent
Persistent but not pestering! Make your contact ongoing
until they have either indicated they have settled comfortably into
a church (yours or another) or they make it clear ongoing contact
is not desired. Remember some pastoral issues can take a few weeks
to surface such as loneliness and homesickness so plan follow up
contact to see how they are getting on. If they appear uninterested
in finding a church home make a diary note to contact them every
few months. Sometimes "student life" is not as attractive
as it first seems and they may be more open to an invitation to
your church later in the year.
Caring for these people can be time consuming but
remember how critical this stage of their faith development is and
give it your very best! Be sure to bookmark this
page or print it off for future reference.
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